A drastic measure to end a relationship
When someone doesn’t want to do something and cannot find a way out, they sometimes do something drastic to prevent participating. In a relationship it means to self-sabotage it to fail. It is part of self-sabotaging behavior. For example, people make themselves sick to avoid going to grandma’s house. In a relationship, it’s a self-destructive behavior someone might not even know they are doing. Its point is to keep from committing to a relationship. Your partner wants to get serious, but you do not, so you build walls between yourselves. You change your behavior to be less available. Ultimately you break up.
But sometimes you realize you are doing this, and you do not want to. It’s become a habit and you keep ruining relationships and now you want to stop and settle down. You have a Commitment Our Mindhealth Self-Hypnosis audio program on commitment will help you see the error of your ways in self-sabotaging relationships and let you find a lasting partner.